Empty nest? I don't think that's a thing.

So let me tell you a little story about empty nesters.

Once upon a time in a far away place called Rexburg Idaho there was a young girl named Mattie. With her bags all packed she moved into her very first apartment away from home. Mattie knew of course that it would be hard for her parents to see her go, especially because she is the youngest and sweetest of 7 children. Her parents helped her move all her things into the apartment with tear stained eyes. After their long journey home they later called Mattie and told her they love her, and they miss her so much they can't leave her bedroom door open without starting to cry.

Fast-forward now 2 weeks into the future. Mattie's parents haven't called for a while, have they forgotten her? No, they're home, planning a cruise to somewhere exotic. They've found someone new to take Mattie's place, her name is vacation, their brand new daughter. They don't have to keep Mattie's door closed anymore. That phase quickly passed and their nest is empty no longer.Vacation and them have a grand time without forgotten Mattie. Now, I don't blame them, I really don't. But due to this story I no longer believe that having an empty nest is such a bad thing.

(This is based on a true story)

Parenting styles

There are 3 major types of parenting styles

1. Permissive: Gives the child too many choices, laid back, and unrealistic expectations. The child often thinks, "Do they even care?"
2. Authoritarian/autocratic: Gives the child no other choice. "Because I said so." the child often rebels because they figure out the parent is just giving empty threats. 
3. Authoritative/Active: Gives the child the right amount of choices. Parents are reliable and realistic. They set ground rules and enforce them with love and respect. 

What kind of parenting styles is the video below and example of? Which type of parenting style did your parents use? Which style do you plan on using with your children? (Yes, it is authoritarian!)